YOU HAVE LEARNED TO MEDITATE.
YOU MEDITATE DAILY.
YOU ARE ON THE OTHER SIDE.
YOU ARE IN NEW TERRITORY.
SO…..WHAT DO YOU DO NOW????
You are on the other side of the river. You have started to acquire a new awareness, a new way of looking at “reality”. You understand the futile circularity of your thinking process. You are beginning to discern what is important from what is not important. You get a glimpse of how much the voice in your head is getting you no-where.
In a word, your mind is leaner and you are wiser. You feel a bit happier but you also realize you are becoming a different person. What was important yesterday is not relevant today, what was drama and hysteria is now an experience to go through, what was judgment and anger are becoming something slightly more subtle. You realize that you have shed stuff you were familiar with. Stuff that made you who you thought you were for decades. You are on the other side of the bridge looking back at that familiar face that is paling little by little.
And… you panic! The grass may be greener here but you are not that sure of who you are in this new territory. You realize that most of what gave you confidence and a sense of belonging is becoming quite irrelevant in this new world.
You understand that the little you have explored through your meditation practice has given you beautiful moments of deep peace, fragrant whiffs of new ways to love, tentative sharp insights that surprise you, glimpses of kindness that turn you happy. You know it is the real you in a beautiful land and yet…. so much newness makes you uneasy. The uncertainty of the newness, of the novelty, of the change, is unsettling you.
Paradoxically, you also start noticing a bit of fear creeping into your mind..., the fear that all this growth and newly acquired joy might disappear. You realize you don’t know how to work with it or what else to do to make it permanent.
You wish there is something you can do to not only keep your meditation practice strong but also to strengthen your connection to the new You and to your new Life.
And I believe you are right! You need other tools, techniques that will complement your meditation and will integrate your quiet practice with your active life with a renewed sense of reverence and sacredness. Something else that will deepen the intention you bring to your meditation so that it will permeate all aspects of your life.
There are many many tools: rituals, devotional chanting, ceremonial participation, retreats, yoga, breathing exercises, etc., all beautiful enhancers of any spiritual path, but I believe that there is one in particular that is absolutely essential to give deep meaning to your spiritual unveiling and growth: PRAYER.
Prayer is the ultimate “technique” you need in order to navigate the new territory you have started to acquire. When you learn what it is, what is an authentic prayer, a powerful prayer, and you learn to use it, you will begin to feel its grace pouring over you. You will know that you have arrived.
In my next posts, we will dive deeply into the realm of prayer. Stay tuned!
In the meantime, I would love to receive your comments, your questions, suggestions, scrawl down to the comments box, or you can send them to: info@monicabelizan.com
Love and Light!
Monica
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